Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau, former Ashkenazi Chief Rabbi of Israel, wrote a memoir of his miraculous ascension from the ashes of Buchenwald to the lofty position of Rav Harashi (Chief Rabbi).
In his book, (which was given to my son as a Bar Mitzva gift, and which I borrowed) he describes a meeting with El Comandante – Fidel Castro.
Fidel asked Rabbi Lau the following question: “How did you get to where you did? Here in Cuba a child of eight who grows up without his parents, especially one who doesn’t speak the language, will become a juvenile delinquent!”
Rabbi Lau’s answer was profound, yet simple. Acknowledging his older brother who made an oath to ensure his survival, his aunt and uncle who raised him, and the staff of the yeshivot that he attended -- he attributed his improbable rise to the fact that “I represent the 38th generation of a rabbinic family”.
This past weekend, Miriam and I celebrated the Bar Mitzva of our son Shmuli.
My message to Shmuli was similar. At times in life, expectations as viewed as burdens. Often, the pressure of continuing our parents' and ancestors’ legacy, is viewed as burdensome. Rabbi Lau was someone for whom his 1,000 year-old legacy, became –not a burden—but a powerful motivator in his life success.
Shmuli’s Grand-Fathers, Great-Grandfathers, Great-Great-Grandfathers, and more --- have carried the Torch of Jewish Leadership and the Rabbinate before him. May they illuminate and inspire Shmuli on his journey forward.
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Hecht